Mothers Day – Latinos vs Anglos? Cats…

dia de las madres

Last night after the vigil Mass, the Latinos got together in the social hall and had a bite to eat. Chicken, pork chops, steak, rice, beans, guacamole (hot), chips, and, of course, cake. There was music and singing and laughter. I really enjoyed the steak in honor of my own mom. She died way back in 1994, a year after my dad…

There won’t be any get together in the social hall after the 11:00 AM (mostly “Anglo”) Mass today, as there usually is almost without fail. The cancellation came about because it was decided that since it was a special day, people would eat at home. I’m all for moms getting breakfast in bed and not having to cook the rest of the day (that sounds sexist doesn’t it? I mean, some men can really cook up a storm, right?). When I was a kid, we would always go out to eat “brunch” after Sunday Mass, which was always the sine qua non of any Sunday.

Actually, this Latino vs Anglo style isn’t really a cultural division though it seems like it. Most of the Latinos are here already, or, if not, they are not going to do any cross-border travelling on Mothers Day, maybe for Christmas and Easter, maybe for a funeral or wedding, but not Mothers Day. Meanwhile, the “Anglos” do travel, but not away, never away on this day. Instead, this is the destination. Mothers don’t travel on Mothers Day, the kids do. The moms retired here in WNC with their spouses, and so the kids come here. It just turns out given our limitations on our little campus that people like to break out into their families instead of attempting to stay all together. But at a glace, it looks like a real cultural division: huge party for the Latinos, all in private for the Anglos. But that’s just not true.

I do think, however, of the widows whose kids can’t come (or simply don’t). The Latinos might have something that provides for that circumstance. That’s worth taking a look at.

Just thinking about this…. I wonder if there is a Cats in the Cradle about moms. Is there?

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2 responses to “Mothers Day – Latinos vs Anglos? Cats…

  1. sanfelipe007

    Happy Mother’s day to all our Mothers!

  2. Cathy

    I wrote this many years ago,
    Mother Blue Days
    The painting peels, the doorway pouts,
    No one goes in and she never goes out.
    Her old feet whimper across the floor,
    Where those of her young had skipped quickly before.
    No hand to hold, her skin grows cold,
    The fear of the young, the fate of the old.
    Then winter came and took her breath,
    Wrapping her gently in its blanket of death.
    Her children came to the funeral,
    Yes, they came all!
    They came to see her once every fall,
    On Christmas, perchance, they might happen to call,
    But certainly that was all.

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